Anonymous Said...
Hi. I have some friends in my class that are all girls and a couple years ago they made a blog. They have never shared their password with me to let me on. I feel like we've been growing apart ever since they made it. It has been almost 2-3 years and they still won't let me on!!! They don't act any different but I still feel really left out. I really need some advice right now...
Have you tried talking to them about it? They may have no idea that you feel this way. Try texting or e-mailing one of them. like we said in our last post, it's usually easier to talk over texting than in real life. I know how it feels to be left out, but I'm pretty sure if you talk to them they'll give you the password if you just talk to them about it. If they don't, try to get them to explain why not. If all of that fails, you could always start your own blog. If you give us the URL, maybe we could put the link on our blog. Don't stress too much about it! Things will work out sooner or later. Hope this helped!
Love,
The Advice Columnist
P.S. If they won't include you at all, maybe there aren't really your friends. Think about it. : )
Saturday, September 27, 2008
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Advice # 5 ( i think......)
Skyler said...
Ummm...This is Skyler. I'm in 7th grade at Marlowe. I was wondering if you guys would answer a question I have. Okay. I really like this guy, but he's always hanging out with his friends on 7-1 and I was wondering what to do. I talk to him and we're best friends-we have been since preschool. We even went out together for a few weeks, but then he called it off. How can I talk to him without feeling like a loser because I got dumped??? Please help!!!
Well first try to figure out why he dumped you. Maybe you werent meant to be together. Try to sit with him at lunch or hang out with him after school. Ask him for his emali address of AIM. That way you can talk to him without feeling embarrassed. I find that it's alot eaiser to talk to a guy through email or texts than it is in person. Don't feel like loser because he dumped you! It wasn't your fault, he obviously just didn't think it was gonna work at the time. Once you and him build up a good relationship as freinds again, maybe try to see if he likes you more than a friend.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh and remember your not the only person who deals with trouble like this, I know EXACTLY how you feel! lol
Ps. Wow alot of people read our blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love,
The Advice Columnist
Ummm...This is Skyler. I'm in 7th grade at Marlowe. I was wondering if you guys would answer a question I have. Okay. I really like this guy, but he's always hanging out with his friends on 7-1 and I was wondering what to do. I talk to him and we're best friends-we have been since preschool. We even went out together for a few weeks, but then he called it off. How can I talk to him without feeling like a loser because I got dumped??? Please help!!!
Well first try to figure out why he dumped you. Maybe you werent meant to be together. Try to sit with him at lunch or hang out with him after school. Ask him for his emali address of AIM. That way you can talk to him without feeling embarrassed. I find that it's alot eaiser to talk to a guy through email or texts than it is in person. Don't feel like loser because he dumped you! It wasn't your fault, he obviously just didn't think it was gonna work at the time. Once you and him build up a good relationship as freinds again, maybe try to see if he likes you more than a friend.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh and remember your not the only person who deals with trouble like this, I know EXACTLY how you feel! lol
Ps. Wow alot of people read our blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love,
The Advice Columnist
Monday, September 15, 2008
Blog Link
We recently got a question from Artsy Monkey asking us how to get people to read her blog. Here's the link to it, check it out sometime!
www.artsymonkey.blogspot.com
Luv,
The Advice Columnist
www.artsymonkey.blogspot.com
Luv,
The Advice Columnist
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Advice # (i gotta think of a better title)
ImJustME said...
ok, so i really like this guy but i dont know if he likes me back. He is nice to me but he also teases me in a joking kind of way. He even asked me who i liked once. Do you think he likes me? Also what are some ways to tell if a guy likes you?
The Advice Columnist said...
I think you might really have a chance with this guy. I think it's safe to say that he has a good chance of liking you back. Unfortunately there are no definite ways to find out if a guy likes you besides asking him yourself. If you don't really feel up to that (i don't blame you) you could also just wait a while. If you keep the same relationship up, that guy will most likely realize he really likes you back. Sorry if it's really indefinite, but to make this definite, you gotta take some chances. Hope this could help!!
Luv,
The Advice Columnist
ok, so i really like this guy but i dont know if he likes me back. He is nice to me but he also teases me in a joking kind of way. He even asked me who i liked once. Do you think he likes me? Also what are some ways to tell if a guy likes you?
The Advice Columnist said...
I think you might really have a chance with this guy. I think it's safe to say that he has a good chance of liking you back. Unfortunately there are no definite ways to find out if a guy likes you besides asking him yourself. If you don't really feel up to that (i don't blame you) you could also just wait a while. If you keep the same relationship up, that guy will most likely realize he really likes you back. Sorry if it's really indefinite, but to make this definite, you gotta take some chances. Hope this could help!!
Luv,
The Advice Columnist
Friday, September 12, 2008
Advice #3
artsymonkey said
I'm starting a new blog but how can I get people2 read it?
Well think about how you got to reading our blog. Did you hear about through friends or family or maybe you just came apon it. My advice is tell all your friends. Ask your friends to tell their friends. If your blog is approprite tell your family and teachers about it too. Talking is a great way to network!
Love
The Advice Columnist
PS give me the web address and maybe we can post a link! =)
I'm starting a new blog but how can I get people2 read it?
Well think about how you got to reading our blog. Did you hear about through friends or family or maybe you just came apon it. My advice is tell all your friends. Ask your friends to tell their friends. If your blog is approprite tell your family and teachers about it too. Talking is a great way to network!
Love
The Advice Columnist
PS give me the web address and maybe we can post a link! =)
Advice #2
shortylgotllow said...
i could use some advice. a good friend of mine is really good friends with a guy that's pretty much just a regular friend at this point, even though i kinda like him. i kinda feel like i can't really talk about it and it kinda makes part of me want to cry and part of me kinda mad and part of me wants them to be together (even though at this point she seems like she doesn't want to) but part of me doesnt.
What I think you should do is, ask your friend what she feels about this guy. Ask her if she like, likes him or if they are just friends. If she says they are just friends, then ask things about him, and ask her if maybe she'll help you win him over. If you want your two friends to be together, well i dont know what to tell you about that, you cant force two people to have feelings for eachother. Thats just not the way the world works, hun. Also maybe ask other friends that know your tow friends, they might have better advice, because they know the people you are talking about =) Good luck and just to let you know, I know how you feel, dont stress, things will fall into place if they are meant to be!
Love
The Advice Columnist
PS- Coffee Snobs, when posting please sign as The Advice Columnist to keep the our identites a secret. We dont want people to not ask questions just cuz they who is answering.
i could use some advice. a good friend of mine is really good friends with a guy that's pretty much just a regular friend at this point, even though i kinda like him. i kinda feel like i can't really talk about it and it kinda makes part of me want to cry and part of me kinda mad and part of me wants them to be together (even though at this point she seems like she doesn't want to) but part of me doesnt.
What I think you should do is, ask your friend what she feels about this guy. Ask her if she like, likes him or if they are just friends. If she says they are just friends, then ask things about him, and ask her if maybe she'll help you win him over. If you want your two friends to be together, well i dont know what to tell you about that, you cant force two people to have feelings for eachother. Thats just not the way the world works, hun. Also maybe ask other friends that know your tow friends, they might have better advice, because they know the people you are talking about =) Good luck and just to let you know, I know how you feel, dont stress, things will fall into place if they are meant to be!
Love
The Advice Columnist
PS- Coffee Snobs, when posting please sign as The Advice Columnist to keep the our identites a secret. We dont want people to not ask questions just cuz they who is answering.
Sunday, September 7, 2008
Advice #1
Hey!! This is in reply to someone's problem stating that they didn't like their friend's friends.
So, if you commented that comment, listen up. First of all, I think you should try to get to know your friend's friends. If you really are (used to be?) best friends, you should trust their judgement on friendships. If you already have done that, talk to your friend privately. If she tells you why she hangs out with these people, and you don't like her answer, you might want to hang out with some other friends. If you think she has good reasons for hanging out with her other friends, maybe you could see past what you don't like about them and start seeing what your friend sees in them. I know, the solution isn't ideal, but if you want to get this sorted out, this is what you have to do (unless you find another solution that I have totally looked past...) I hoped this helps!!!!!!
Luv,
Frappy
So, if you commented that comment, listen up. First of all, I think you should try to get to know your friend's friends. If you really are (used to be?) best friends, you should trust their judgement on friendships. If you already have done that, talk to your friend privately. If she tells you why she hangs out with these people, and you don't like her answer, you might want to hang out with some other friends. If you think she has good reasons for hanging out with her other friends, maybe you could see past what you don't like about them and start seeing what your friend sees in them. I know, the solution isn't ideal, but if you want to get this sorted out, this is what you have to do (unless you find another solution that I have totally looked past...) I hoped this helps!!!!!!
Luv,
Frappy
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